What if you aren’t loving them the way they want to be loved?

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Apologies for not keeping up with “Be inspired Wednesday”, my laptop gives me headache. Anyway, let’s go into today’s topic. I just came across one of Abimbola Craig’s YouTube Videos titled “Can you teach people how to love you?”. I wasn’t watching any love related videos, just so you know. I was watching one of her videos then this came up. Guess what I was watching? Yes! “Mukbang with Mide & Tiwa of Skinny Girl in Transit”, lol. If you never watched the famous “Skinny Girl in Transit” Tv Show, you’re probably lost right now. You know what? Just look it up on YouTube.

In this “Can you teach people how to love you?” vlog she did, one thing that got to me is the love languages she mentioned. I once watched a sermon by Pastor Nike Adeyemi titled The Language of Love but that was just it. Now, I want to be more intentional about knowing the love languages of the people around me. I hope you get what I mean. Basically, we want people to love us and we don’t mind teaching them how to love us but how about learning how to love them, whether they be family, friends or colleagues?

You might have been hit with the “You don’t love me” unplanned speech by someone you care about. Meanwhile, you think you’re doing your best. The truth is you probably are loving them the way you want to be loved, not necessarily the way they want to be loved. Hence, the reason for this topic. What i want you to do with the five love languages below is to find out your most important love language and that of those around you. If you’re in a relationship or marriage, check that of your partner too. You would know their love language by the things they complain the most about. It’s safe to know that their love language might be your least favorite but do take it serious and work on it.

What are the five love languages?

1. Quality time: By which I mean, giving your undivided attention. Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and listening. For instance, if someone keeps complaining that you don’t call them often enough or they always want to be with you, their love language could be quality time.

2. Acts of service: Doing something for them that you know they would like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service. Someone (person A) once told me that after eating a meal prepared by a friend, her way of saying thank you is to do the dishes. To someone else (person B), it could be by just saying the word “thank you” and telling everyone who cares to listen about the food and the cook. According to Acts of service, person B might be considered an ingrate.

3. Words of Affirmation: Using words to build up the other person. People on this table, take words said serious. They want you to complement them. They want to hear how you feel about them from time to time. If you’re a sucker at speaking out your mind, you might have issues with them.

4. Receiving gifts: A gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.” These type of people want a gift very often no matter how intangible it seems. No gift equals to no love.

5. Physical touch: This includes holding hands, hugging, cuddling, etc. Don’t assume everybody loves physical touch because you do. There are people who cringe at the thought of it and trust me, you don’t want to be in their black book.

May the Lord give us the grace and ability to put what we’ve just learnt into practical use in Jesus name. What’s your love language? Can you guess mine? Let me know in the comment section below.

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Be inspired Wednesday -“Believe God”

Hey! I thought I should start a “Be inspired Wednesday”. After all, we all need some motivation every now and then. So here it is. Today on “Be inspired Wednesday”, Heather Lindsey encourages us to believe God in spite of today’s challenges.

I’m just crazy enough to believe that the plan that God has for me is good. I’m crazy enough to believe that I can have a healthy marriage. I’m crazy enough to believe that my children are madly in love with Jesus. I’m crazy enough to believe that I can walk in my purpose, preach, run our ministries, write books, blog, record videos, run businesses and live my best life. I didn’t start believing when I saw these things. I started believing years ago when I was in a tiny NYC apartment with roaches and I was working for free as an intern. I simply believed when I had holes in my shoes. I believed when people bashed me and overlooked me. I believed when nobody believed in me.

I knew that life wouldn’t happen overnight but if I kept putting one foot in front of the other then it would happen. If I kept surrendering to Jesus. If I kept trusting in Him, if I stayed closed to Him, if I obeyed Him – then I would see the life He promised me in 2003. By no means is life perfect and I fought like heck to get here but I can confidently say that God will do exceedingly, abundantly above all you ask or THINK when you trust in Him. Living for Jesus isn’t a one event thing. It’s continuing to say “yes” to Him with your whole life every single day. Remember that God is not a respecter of people and He shows no favorites. ❤️

Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us. Ephesians 3:20

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How we met – Damilola and Emmanuella Mike Bamiloye

Damilola Mike Bamiloye is a Nigerian movie actor, dramatist, producer and director. He is the first son and child of the evangelist, founder and president of Mount Zion Drama Ministry and Mount Zion Television, Mike Bamiloye. Some of the movies produced by Damilola Mike Bamiloye are; “Ignition”, “Stalker”, “Spiritual Obsession”, “The Counselor”, “Francis”, etc. Damilola got married to Emmanuella, a Medical Doctor by profession in 2018. The couple recently released a video on how they met. Was it God orchestrated or purely chemistry? Let’s find out! But before then check out these amazing reviews from over 120k viewers worldwide.

How we met Reviews

“And to think I almost didn’t watch. Thank you for sharing your story. I believe it was because of me that you did.”

“I was greatly inspired y’all. Thank you so much for this. It gave me so much clarity on some things. I can’t think of a better way to start my day. I’m so grateful.” 🙏

“The highlight is the “basis of the call” 🤣🤣 you must have been scared. Wow love you guys. Looking forward to your movies. God bless your marriage”

“Imagine someone you truly like asking you out. Oh wow!!! God is a great Restorer, and the Healer of broken hearts and broken dreams.”

“I was like why is “How we met” so long but after seeing it, it was worth it. Thanks and God bless.” 🙇🏻‍♂️

“Ella, you are not only a beautiful woman also a spiritually sounded wife. I love both of you, God bless you home. Greetings from Italy”.

“DAMI: Whoever God has for you, He has prepared that person already for you. Now, that word is for me. Amen!!!!”

“Dami is a sharp shooter o ahaaan kilode.” 😂 😂

“This isn’t just how they met it’s actually a word for the world. I’m really blessed. Thanks.”

“Thank you for proving that those who wait on God will never be put to shame. I connect to this grace”.👐👐

“The best thing that can ever happen to a lady is to have her heart sold out to God. Having God as the king of your heart helps to fill every void and reposition one for the Gods will. Thank you Ella and Dami”.

“I love that word by Ella that ‘I’m not an ordinary person and I cannot settle for anything less.’ This video is a blessing indeed.”

“I’m so happy for you Sister Ella, that you didn’t bring yourself to accept just anybody. Your standards weren’t too high, you were just unique and your type was rare, I’m glad he found you in due time. ”

“I smiled all through. God bless your home for His praise. I love you both.”

“This was so beautiful to watch. God bless your home”.

“Wowwww. I have been so so blessed by this. You are a wonderful couple. May God bless you.”

“Thanks for sharing such great wisdom with us.” 😍😍

“I was just smiling all through the video. Love you guys.”

How we met video

I enjoyed every bit of this.

More Reviews

“I literally had to pause the video to comment, because y’all were speaking to meeee. Wow so relatable! My love for you both is on another level.😩❤ More grace my dear bro and sis”.🤗

“Jotted so many things down….this is beautiful..I am enlightened and encouraged. Thank you.”

“Thank you so much Ella and Damilola, God will continue to bless you both and increase his fire in you. Your words were just confirmation on the things the Lord has been telling me. Listening to you both talk, felt like God was repeating his words to me again. Thank you for yielding to God’s leading. Remain blessed.”

“Wow! I just derived a revelation from this Genesis 24! I only read the chapter like a novel, It’s good to read the WORD with understanding! Thank you for sharing, I am truly blessed!” 🙏

“Really touched me. And I definitely learnt a lot. Thank you for being a blessing.” 🤗

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Ada – Final Say {Lyrics & Download}

Ada Ogochukwu Ehi (nee Ndukauba), a Nigerian born international gospel singer-song writer, recording and performing artist drops off a new single titled “Final Say”. The track was taken off her newly released self titled project called “ADA’s EP Vol. 1” which consists of 5 tracks.

Final Say Video

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Final Say Lyrics

Intro:

Ta da da ta ta… ta

Verse 1:

Your love never runs out

It’s deeper than the endless sea

Your glory never fades out

You’re the one that we adore

oh oh oh oh oh oh

The one that we adore

oh oh oh oh oh oh

Chorus:

King of the Universe

Jesus You have the final say

We have seen your faithfulness

You are who You say You are

oh oh oh oh

Your Word will never fail

You have the final say

Eh!

Oh oh oh oh oh da

Verse 2:

You never lose a battle

In Your name we have overcome

Nothing can contain You

Your word will come to pass

oh oh oh oh oh

Your Word will come to pass

Oh oh oh oh oh

Chorus:

King of the Universe

Jesus You have the final say

For we have seen Your faithfulness

You are who You say You are

oh oh oh oh

Your Word will never fail

You have the final say

Ehhh eh!

Tag:

Have You ever seen the Lord change?

Have you ever seen the Lord disappointing?

Have You ever seen the Lord change?

Have you ever seen the Lord disappointing?

oh oh oh oh oh oh oh

Your Word will come to pass

oh oh oh oh oh

Chorus:

King of the Universe

Jesus You have the final say

For (I) we have seen Your faithfulness

(My Lord) You are who You say You are

oh oh oh oh

Your Word will never fail

You have the final say ehhh eh!

Tag:

Have you ever seen the Lord change?

Have you ever seen the Lord disappointing?

Have you ever seen the Lord change?

Have you ever seen the Lord disappointing?

King of the universe

I have never seen the Lord change

I have never seen the Lord disappointing

King of the Universe

I have never seen the Lord change

I have never seen the Lord disappointing

ooooh

[Claps]

Chioma (Jesus) – Frank Edwards

One of Nigerian’s most popular gospel artist, Frank Edwards just released a new single titled “Chioma”. “Chioma” is an Igbo word which means “good God”. The newly single is a follow up to his recently released single “Happiness”. “Under the Canopy”, “Miracle Rain”, “Oghene doh” and many more are songs by Frank Edwards.

Chioma (Jesus) Video

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Chioma (Jesus) Lyrics

Oh Oh Oh
Oh Oh Oh
Oh Oh Oh

I don’t know why You love me so
I don’t know why You bless me oh
What is the reason You died for me oh
Somebody tell me ’cause I don’t know oh

Anom gi naka onye keruwa
Ujo anagha tu mo oh

You came to die for me (Chioma)
You are the reason why (Chioma)

Now I can sing of your love, I will glorify

Ebubedike eh (Chioma)
Agu ne chemba (chioma)
You are marvelous oh
Daddy, You are marvelous oh

Oh ey, Oh ey, Oh Oh, Oh, Oh Oh Ahn Ahn
You are bigger than what people say

What about my accusers
They are no more
No more, no more, no more, no more, no more
What about my oppressors
They are no more, They are no more

Ey, because
Anom gi naka onye keruwa
Ujo anagha tu mo oh

Anom gi naka onye keruwa
Ujo anagha tu mo oh

You came to die for me (Chioma)
You are the reason why (Chioma)
Now I can sing of your love, I will glorify

Ebubedike eh (Chioma)
Agu ne chemba (Chioma)
You are marvelous oh
Daddy, You are marvelous oh
Daddy, You are marvelous o

Oh ey, Oh ey, Oh Oh, Oh Oh Ahn Ahn
You are bigger than what people say (bigger than what people say)

You came to die for me o (Chioma)
You are the reason why (Chioma)
No I can sing of your Love, I will glorify

Ebubedike eh (Chioma)
Agu ne chemba (Chioma)
You are marvelous oh
Daddy, You are marvelous o

(Chioma) (Chioma) (Chioma) (Chioma)

Chioma Choma eh (Chioma)
Chioma maramma ne eziokwu (Chioma)
Obinigwe kanyi na kpo gi o
Obinigwe kanyi na kpo gi

Jehovah, anurum na eh oh (Chioma)
Your excellency, Chioma
You are excellent o
You are marvelous o

Chioma eh, Chioma eh (Chioma)
Chioma, Chioma eh (Chioma)
Chioma, Chioma eh

(CHIOMA) (CHIOMA)
(CHIOMA) (CHIOMA)

Oh Jesus – Mercy Chinwo {Lyrics & Download}

Happy Easter everyone. The Easter season serves as a reminder of the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. What better way to enjoy this season than to worship God with the song “Oh Jesus” by Mercy Chinwo? Other songs by the Nigerian gospel artist [Mercy Chinwo] includes but not limited to: “Excess love“, “Power belongs to You“, “Chinedum” and “Ome kannaya“.

OH JESUS LYRICS

Listen and be blessed

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OH JESUS LYRICS

Oh Jesus, Oh Jesus
Your name is Powerful
Oh Jesus
Your name is Glorious
Oh Jesus

VERSE:
Your name is powerful than any force in this world
You are glorious and faithful in all your ways
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Your name is powerful
Oh Jesus
Your name is glorious
Oh JESUS

CHORUS:
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Oh oh oh oh Jesus
Your name is powerful
Oh Jesus
Your name is glorious
Oh Jesus

Like Dis – Ada {Lyrics & Download}

Ada Ogochukwu Ehi (née Ndukauba), simply known by her stage name Ada, is a Nigerian born International gospel singer-songwriter, recording and performing artist. Some of her songs in addition to this new single include “Only You Jesus”, “Jesus (You are able)”, “I testify” and “I overcame”.

Like Dis Video by Ada Ehi

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LIKE DIS LYRICS BY ADA EHI

Intro: If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, hi
I indicate, that the Lord has been good to me
I indicate, say Your sugar dey sweet for belle
I indicate, everything You do is sure
Your air You’ve given me oh

Chorus: If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Hi
Like Dis, hi
If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi

Verse 1: All the glory, Oh Father
You give me grace oh, I no fit tire
Everything I conquer
Give me grace to prosper
Say Your love dey cover,
Cover, cover
Cover me

I say make You do like dis o
Brother make You dance like dis
Make You move like dis
Sister make You dance like that
Like dis
Oya Dance like dis
Oya wave like dis

Chorus: If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Hi
Like Dis, hi
If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi

Verse 2: I dey gbadun Your way oh Daddy
This Your love oh Daddy
You give me grace oh, Daddy
As I dey run my race, oh Daddy

Suddenly, Suddenly, You keep on changing my life story
Finally, finally, Receive the praise for my new story

I say make You do like dis o
Brother make You dance like dis
Make You move like dis
Sister make You dance like that
Like dis
Oya Dance like dis
Oya wave like dis

If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Hi
Like Dis, hi
If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi

Bridge:
I indicate, I indicate, I indicate

Chorus:
If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Hi
Like Dis, hi
If Your God no be man make You raise Your hand Like Dis
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi

(I indicate, I indicate, I indicate)
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi
Like Dis, Like Dis, hi

If God/Nothing But The Blood – Casey J {Lyrics & Download)

Casey-J-If-God-Mp3-Download

Casey Janice Hobbs (born June 29, 1986), popularly known as Casey J, is an American gospel musician best known for her song “Fill Me Up”, which reached number 1 on the billboard gospel chart. The song “If God/ Nothing But The Blood” was released six (6) months ago, however it is still a song on the lips of many today.

If God / Nothing But The Blood – Casey J {Lyrics}

What shall we say to these things?
There’s still cancer and so much disease
What shall we say to these things?
So much hurting, and broken esteem
So many questions, but still one answer

If God be for me, who can be against me?
If God is with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still His heart adores me
I am safe, I am loved, I am healed

What shall we say to these things?
So much violence, it’s getting hard to believe
And what shall we say to these things?
So many people hurting, with broken esteem
So many questions, but still one answer

If God be for me, who can be against me?
If God is with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still His heart adores me
I am safe, I am loved, I am… healed
If God be for me, who can be against me?
If God is with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still His heart adores me
I am safe, I am loved, I am healed…

Now what can wash away my sin? Sing it
Nothing but the blood of Jesus
And what can make me whole again?
Nothing but the blood of Jesus
We’re singing
Oh precious is the flow
That makes me white as snow
It was no other fount I know
It was nothing but the blood of Jesus
That I could do no words
That I could say no price
That I could pay
Nothing but the blood of Jesus
We’re singing
Oh precious is the flow
That makes me white as snow
It was no other fount I know
It was nothing but the blood of Jesus
That we could do no words
That we could say no price
That we could pay
Nothing but the blood of Jesus
It was nothing but the blood of Jesus
It was nothing but Your blood, my Jesus
It was nothing but Your blood, my Jesus

If You are for me, who can be against me?
If You are with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still His heart adores me
I am safe, I am loved, I am healed
I am safe, I am loved… I am healed
I am safe, I am loved… I am healed
I am safe, I am loved… I am healed

If You are for me, who can be against me?
If You are with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still Your heart adores me
We are safe, we are loved, we are… healed
Can we sing that? Say, if You are for me
If You are for me, who can be against me?
If You are with me, whom shall I fear?
If no one knows me, still Your heart adores me
Say I am safe
I am safe, I am loved, I am… healed
Say if You are for me
If You are for me, who can be against me?
If You are with me…

If God/Nothing But The Blood – Casey J {VIDEO}

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30 Relationship sermons to watch/listen to

The best time to start preparing for marriage is now. It is said that you don’t prepare in marriage, you prepare for marriage. Here are 30 relationship sermons to help you prepare for marriage. Are you married? You aren’t excluded.

1. Bishop David Abioye:

  • Preparing for marriage
  • Singles develop yourself before marriage
  • Marital and relationship wisdom

2. TD Jakes:

  • The junk in your trunk
  • Understanding men
  • Before you say I do

3. Myles Munroe:

  • Understanding love Part 1 & 2
  • Principles for male and female relationships

4. Transformation church:

  • Before the person: Relationship goals part 1
  • Single not alone: Relationship goals part 2

5. Pastor John Gray:

  • Speed of relationships

6. Dr Olukoya:

  • Choosing a life partner
  • Marriage and your choice Part 1-3

7. Rev. Funke Felix Adejumo:

  • How to plan for a good marriage
  • Marriage, Relationship, Sex
  • The four levels of maturity before marriage
  • Marriage is for destiny

8. Apostle Joshua Selman:

  • Understanding people, mastering relationships part 1 and 2,
  • Relationship and family series part 1-3,
  • What is love?
  • Made in His image.

9. Steve Furtick:

  • Finding happiness in relationships

10. Bro Gbile Akanni:

  • Practical steps in the choice of a life partner (part 1&2)
  • Christian Courtship (Part 1-7)
  • Choosing a life partner without stress

11. Bimbo Odukoya:

  • Building friendship
  • How to avoid premarital sex
  • How to tell I am in love
  • 50 questions to ask before marriage

12. Sam Adeyemi:

  • Finding someone to marry

Below is a “special” that would make you laugh even while you learn.

13. The Winlos: A Christian comedy skits with lessons by The Winlos

How many of these have you watched, come across or plan to watch? Feel free to share your ideas in the comment section. You can find all videos on YouTube. Thank you for reading. Please like, comment and share.

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Joyful Noise-Eben {Lyrics & Download)

Emmanuel Benjamin popularly known as Eben is a famous and multi-award winning gospel artist in Nigeria. His fame spreads abroad including the Commonwealth of Dominica. Some of his popular songs are “Victory”, “God all by Yourself”, “All the way” and “Jesus at the center of it all”. Enjoy!

JOYFUL NOISE VIDEO

I hope this makes you dance as much as it makes me dance.

JOYFUL NOISE LYRICS

Oh na oh na
It’s double HR
Oh na oh na
Excel on the beat
Oh na oh na
Are you ready?
It’s joyful noise
Here we go

I have come to give You worship
I have come to give You thanks
I have come to give You praises
I have come to lift my hands oh Baba
Eh eh eh oh oh oh

Only You deserve my worship
Only You deserve my praise
Your Name I will exalt, oh
Your Banner will I raise, oh Baba
O eh ah oh

Said I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for peace of mind
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me

Said I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for peace of mind
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me oh uh

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

Ima big boy now, money all around
Ima big boy now, sits in the kingdom
Ima big boy now, helping the needy
Ima big boy now, Oluwa is involved, oh
Na up up we dey go
Osinachukwu

Everybody come around eh
Come on mama and papa, come around eh
Put on your dancing shoes, eh eh
Lift up your hands and shout, eh eh
The boy is hot, oh
We are hotter than fire

I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for peace of mind
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me

Said I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for peace of mind
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me oh uh

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me

Said I am thanking You for life, Lord
Thanking You for peace of mind
Thanking You for mercies
Lord You’ve been so good to me oh uh

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
My Jesus oh (ah)
Jesus oh (eh)
Jesus oh (ah)
We would praise Your Name oh
Forever and ever

Joyful Noise!

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